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Baseball - Coaching the Youth of Tomorrow
Bill Bathe
Coaching our youth is a delicate practice that needs to be
taken with the kids self confidence at the heart of the teaching.
These days, parents and coaches alike want to win so bad,
they put undue stress on the kids that can have a negative
effect.
We over criticize when we are talking to them instead of building
up their self-confidence. I once heard a parent yelling at
his kid from the stands, "If you don't get a hit, you will
not be eating dinner tonight!" Needless to say, I went up
and spoke with the parent about this approach. Some people
may think this is harmless, and it may have been said in a
joking fashion. But think of the kid on the field who is playing
in front of all the parents and friends who hears this as
he is strolling up to the plate. Talk about stress and the
feeling of rejection and humiliation if this kid doesn't come
through.
Remember, we are building more than just ballplayers here.
We are building people who are going to go out in the world
someday. We are building character, pride, self-confidence.
We do this through encouragement and a nourishing attitude.
Not through pointing out failures and humiliation.
But how do we get them to play better if they can't stand
a little criticism? By encouraging them. When your kid takes
a swing and misses, the first words out of your mouth should
be, "Nice swing! You just missed it, keep trying and you'll
get a hit!" That encourages your kid to keep trying. Not only
that, your kid will be excited about trying more. This promotes
self-confidence.
If your kid strikes out 4 times in the game. Put an arm around
him after the game and tell him he really swung the bat well
and that he will get them next time. And tell him how proud
you are of him for trying.
Remember these simple tips:
1- Encourage them through positive reinforcement.
2- Nurture them when times are tough.
3- Be there for them when they need your help.
4- And love them unconditionally.
Remember, help your kids out by encouragement. I can't say
this enough. They will believe what they hear and if you are
encouraging them all the time, they will feel good about themselves.
Not only in baseball but in other things. And also remember,
be patient. They are still learning, so you need to give them
time to succeed. Just keep loving them and nurturing them
and the rest will fall in place.
We all have a responsibility to help our youth. They are the
future stars of tomorrow, both on and off the field. However,
how you coach your kid and other parent's kids, helps mold
that child forever. Remember that. You are molding them forever.
The lessons you teach them now will stick with them. They
are like sponges and take in everything. So feed them love
and nourishment and confidence and watch them grow. As they
say, you have to water your flowers to watch them bloom beautifully.
Same goes for your child.
Don't hesitate to put an arm around them when they have had
a bad game or struck out 3 times. Encourage them and love
them. And remember, they are learning lessons in life by playing
the game of baseball, so teach them well!
Bill Bathe - former major league ballplayer who played
in 1989 world series. Been coached by Eddie Matthews, Harmon
Killebrew, Billy Williams, and Dusty Baker to name a few.
You can learn more by visiting www.pro-baseball-drills-and-equipment.com
which provides tips, advice, drills, equipment and video analysis
of your swing. Also, inspirational stories and pictures of
the journey to the big leagues.
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