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The Language Of Confidence
Jason Johns
The language we use programs our brains. Mastering our language
gives us a great degree of mastery over our lives and our
destinies. It is important to use language in the best way
possible in order to dramatically improve your quality of
life.
Even the smallest of words can have the deepest effect on
our sub-conscious mind. It is like a child, it doesn't really
understand the difference between what really happens and
what you imagine. It is eager to please and willing to carry
out any commands that you give it - whether you do this knowingly
or not is entirely up to you.
"Try"
It is a small word yet it has an amazing impact upon us. If
someone says, "I'll try to do that" you know that they are
not going to be putting their whole heart in to it, and may
not even do it at all. How often do you use the word try when
talking about the things that matter to you? Do you say "I'll
try to be more confident" or "I'll try to do that" or "I'll
try to call"?
Think about something that you would like to achieve, and
say it to yourself in two different ways. Firstly say, "I'll
try to …" and notice how you feel. Next say "I will do …"
and see how you feel.
The latter made you feel better than the first one didn't
it? It gives you a sense of determination; a feeling that
it will be done. Listen to the people around you and when
they say they will try notice if it gets done or not. Eliminate
the word try from your dictionary and see how your life improves.
"Can't"
This is another small word with big impact. It dis-empowers
us, makes us feel week and helpless, and damages our self-esteem.
It limits our infinite abilities and stifles creativity. Rub
it out from your internal dictionary and replace it with something
that makes you feel great.
Instead of saying you can't, why not say something like "I
choose …" or "I choose not to …". Using words like this allows
you to take back your power and to be in control of your life.
Words may appear small and insignificant, yet they can have
a deep and lasting effect on us. Mastering your language gives
you the power to live whatever life you desire.
What words do you use a lot that dis-empower you? Make a list
of words you commonly use and then write next to them some
alternatives you can use. Make these alternatives words that
make you feel fabulous, not only about yourself, but about
life and what you are doing!
Jason E. Johns is a personal success coach specializing
in helping you become more confident through an innovative
and compassionate approach. Discover how you can become full
of confidence at his self
confidence website, UnlimitedConfidence.com
Article Source: http://www.upublish.info
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