Why Ace Athletes Must Be "Fathered"
Having a coach to see and guide you through a competition
is not enough to be an ace athlete.
Someone must coach you until you reach mastery. That someone
ought to be a real athlete himself, coached or "fathered"
through a long process by a qualified "father" in athletic
A "father" in training is a battle-hardened master armed with
a wealth of experience in his chosen field. He is not only
knowledgeable in it; he can be considered an epitome in the
field. He has seen lots of actions and has been part of them,
and he knows every nook and cranny of the arena.
He is so familiar with the "feeling" of being out there where
the action is. He knows that real sports encounters are alive;
meaning anything can happen out there, and no pattern or formula
can compare to live, on-the-spot events.
It is only the accurate judgment and experience of the wise
that can cope up with live events. He is also so sensitive
to the right and wrong forms, including the executions of
a technique, the timing, and the right effects. All these
can only be available to a real "father" of sports training.
Some coaches are mere P.E. teachers, or at best, athletic
players once upon a time. They can help some; but at times,
they can be more of hindrances than wise guides for trainees.
They will tend to be bookish and stick to "what the book says,"
or to what they have learned in school, or to what they have
experienced in amateur contests. Without mastery (through
real, professional sports encounters), they lack the sense
to know that aside from mastering basic forms or moves, you
have to be flexible and adaptable to unexpected things that
are likely to happen out there in the actual arena. Only seasoned
sports "fathers" will be able to divulge these details and
wisdom to trainee-"sons."
In his skills and experience, a "father" trainer patiently
raises up "sons" to continue his calling, or pass down his
mission to succeeding generations. He knows too well that
champions come from a relay of skills and wisdom, or a technology
transfer, and not from those who start out from scratch.
You cannot train yourself, or train alone, and come out champion.
You cannot also have amateur coaches train you to be champion.
You have to feed from the experiences of those who had been
there before, saw real tough actions, and really made it to
the top. They may be likened to a lighthouse that points out
what is right and what is wrong, separating fact from myth.
An athletic player acquires knowledge and skill mostly from
his own experiences. He may upgrade that by joining competitions
and by wearing colorful uniforms, and subjecting himself periodically
to coaches. He occasionally reads books about the game. He
may even be awarded best player. However, he does not make
a career out of it. Eventually, he drops out from the scene
and the sport altogether. He will have good stories to tell
about how he used to be this and that, but people may not
be able to trace his stories because of his now bloated physique
due to the absence of training.
An ace athlete, on the other hand, is a "son." He has a "father"
who raises him up, and this athlete is aware that he is not
just being raised up to win an event or a couple of events;
he is being raised up to be a father to raise up other sons
someday. Unlike the athletic player who would point to rusted
trophies and medals and photos of victories as his proof of
being once in the sport, real athletes point to actual "fathers"
who have trained them and from whom they have received "trade
secrets" for success. They also point to actual athletes and
champions they have personally trained and "fathered" to pass
on the heritage for generations to come.
An ace athlete not only aims to be a champion, but lives to
develop other champions as well.
Jeff Miles - Secrets on how you can possess the exceptional
physique and abilities needed to excel in your favorite ports,
and be the athlete of your dreams are revealed on the authors
website at: www.promoathlete.com
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