The Mental Game Of Polo
Build An Unstoppable Competitive Mindset
Bill Cole, MS, MA
I've been the mental game coach to professional polo players
who compete at the local, state, regional, national and international
levels. It's been a true pleasure to help them improve their
mental skills and the mental toughness required to win under
pressure. The horse-rider relationship is an amazing connection.
When it is right, the horse and rider act as one, and perform
to their full potential. The mental game of the rider is often
the determining factor to this athletic formula.
How about you? Is your mental game of polo a sound one?
Here are four mental strategies you can use that will help
your mental game reach a level of excellence.
- Think Correctly: Parse and correct this sentence.
"Big, fast and strong opponents make me nervous."
What would you think if I told you that this sentence is
100% false? It is actually false. It could never be true,
under any circumstances. What makes it false? YOU make yourself
nervous, not any outside thing. I encourage you to observe
your language, and to correct yourself when you use the
construction "this or that makes me nervous." Instead, take
ownership of your thoughts and feelings and realize that
what you think is what makes you feel a certain way. So
think happy, positive, aggressive, winning thoughts!
- Learn To Stay Calm Yet Energized: Polo is a game
of extremes. One moment you are calmly moving the ball downfield
and suddenly you are racing to chase the player who just
stole your ball. This back and forth, frenetic pace can
take its toll, unless you are good at staying calm, under
all these conditions. You want your body and mental energy
high, yet to also be calm, both emotionally and physically.
This is quite a trick, but it's what knowing how the zone
operates is all about. I teach the elements of the zone,
and one way to access that mental state is to learn how
to meditate. Meditation teaches you how to keep yourself
calm and centered. Close your eyes and take three or four
deep, slow breaths. Feel the tension leaving your muscles.
Feel the calmness coming over you. Sit quietly for a few
minutes, doing nothing. Continue to breath deeply and evenly.
This feeling you have created is the calmness you need when
- Handle The Dead Times As Well As The Live: Dead
time is when the action is not taking place. You need to
be adept at handling the down time in a match as well as
when the action is underway. One way to do this is to allow
your mind to relax a bit when the action first stops. Don't
stay on edge and all wired up. You'll just tire yourself
out. There is no such thing as "non-stop concentration"
in a contest. You must give your mind a break from time
to time. Second, you must have solid rituals that will bring
your focus back into the action. Test these rituals in practice
so you will have solid trust in them in a match. Finally,
stick to your rituals. They are there for a reason.
- Believe That You Belong: Some polo players think
they don't really match up to the other competitors. They
think they are interlopers who don't really belong in that
contest. Maybe they are a younger player playing with seasoned
veterans, or with famous stars. Regardless, if you do not
think you are welcome there, your play will suffer. So here's
a mental strategy you can use. Remind yourself that the
expectations for success are actually on the veteran players,
not you. If you lose, everyone thinks, "Of course he
lost, he's not that experienced yet.", and if you win,
they'll think, "Wow, he's really goodI didn't expect
that!". Either way, no one is looking to you to dominate,
or to win. You're not supposed to winyet! So enjoy
your match, with the pressure reduced!
Now you know more about the mental game of polo, and how
to manage what's in your mind. Remember that what you think
and feel comes from you, not the outside, and to stay calm,
yet energized, and ways to handle the dead time as well as
the action, and to believe you belong (with a way to reduce
pressure on yourself). May you enjoy and win all your polo
Copyright © 2014 Bill Cole, MS, MA. All rights reserved.
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Bill Cole, MS, MA, a leading authority on peak performance, mental toughness
and coaching, is founder and President of the International Mental Game Coaching
Bill is also founder and CEO of William B. Cole Consultants, a consulting firm that helps
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